Your team is nice. That’s a problem
Artificial harmony is a sign of dysfunction. Use this protocol to force the productive conflict you need.
Patrick Lencioni argues that “Artificial Harmony” is the hallmark of a dysfunctional team.
If your executive meetings are polite, quiet, and end early, you are in trouble. It means people don’t trust each other enough to disagree. They are saving their real opinions for the “meeting after the meeting” (gossip).
You don’t need peace. You need a fight.
The Prompt
Act as an Organisational Psychologist.
I am auditing my leadership team meetings.
Observations: [e.g., No one disagrees with me, people nod then ignore decisions, silence when I ask for bad news].
1. The Diagnosis: Which of Lencioni's "5 Dysfunctions" is dominant here? (Absence of Trust, Fear of Conflict, Lack of Commitment, Avoidance of Accountability, Inattention to Results).
2. The Breaker: Draft a specific "Grenade" question I can ask in the next meeting to blow up the artificial harmony and force the hidden disagreement onto the table.
3. The Rules: Give me 3 "Rules of Engagement" to set at the start of the meeting so the conflict remains intellectual, not emotional.
The Executive Upgrade
Weak leaders wait for everyone to agree. Great leaders demand “Disagree and Commit.”
Consensus is a math problem: It finds the lowest common denominator that no one objects to. This kills velocity.
Your job isn’t to make everyone happy. It’s to get everyone moving.
Here are the two Governance Protocols to speed up decision-making.
Follow-Up Prompt 1: Mining for Conflict
(Use this when the room is too quiet)
